Feb. 16th, 2019
Testing Testing ... A Catfish Created, Boyfriend Caught on Accident!
Creating a new person is much easier than I thought.
I have been scammed and harassed by so many guys/non-humanoids, that I thought I would see how difficult it would be to create a person, someone completely made up and present him/her as a real human from somewhere made up. Watching the TV show "Catfish" got me thinking that there are so many fake profiles out there. No wonder I've been hurt, threatened, stalked and harassed by people that I find out are fake!
First, I made up a name. Thought I would be from another country, so I looked up common names in Germany. Found a few fun choices and created a new fake name. Then I looked up German women, found a few that looked pretty close to the same and downloaded them.
Next was the profile. I needed a fake email address in order to make a Facebook page. So I searched free German email. Only a few seconds later, I had an email address and a Facebook page. I added a few photos, background pic and profile pic. Now to see if I can attract a few new friends.
It wasn't hard to get new friend requests. I thought about a popular subject and decided to go with Paul McCartney. Joined a few groups and within no time had several friends and several options to share on my page. I choose this subject because my boyfriend is always talking about Paul McCartney and that he supposedly died in 1966 and was replaced by Billy Shears. Since he talks about this daily, I figured I had some content to use on her Facebook page. A little easier I suppose?
Now to check in a few times a week, write a few posts, share other posts from the groups I joined and see what happens. It shocked me how easy it was to create a human being, from nothing.
April 22nd, 2019
It's been a few weeks, I have a pretty nice looking timeline happening now. Weird thing is that my boyfriend showed up as a friend. He also Loved one of my face profile photos, one that portrayed her as a German Model. Why is my boyfriend Loving another woman's photo? Hummm ... So, this fake lady, send my boyfriend a simple personal message. Hi. Guess what, he replied. Hi.
What a surprising development. Is it disgusting of me to see if he'll flirt with this woman or even more? My boyfriend currently lives with me, he says he is totally devoted and in love with me. Yet he was dating a ton of women, having sex and doing drugs. I dumped him several times over this, but he claimed he has changed. Now this. Could be absolutely innocent, nothing at all, but maybe he's wondering and I don't know about it? This could be the tell all.
April 22nd, 2019
Over the last several weeks I've uploaded a few photos of my new human creation on Facebook, posted some links and joined a few additional groups and made a few friends. Interesting enough, my boyfriend accepted her friend request and has liked a few posts that I posted.
One of these posts was about a group on Facebook about one of my boyfriends books that he wrote. Memoirs of Billy Shears. A fictitious book that he uses to scam the gullible.
We were both looking at our computers, my boyfriend suddenly sits up straight, makes a little moaning sound and stretches his arms out and around his body. Then he says that he just got invited to a new group on Facebook. Which was a lie, he found the group on my new females page, because he posted a Heart on it. I also noticed that he liked a bunch of her pretty photos. Isn't this usually the behavior if someone trying to get her attention to flirt with? Yet, here I am, sitting right across from him, watching all of his reactions to this fake person.
This little project just became interesting.
I decided to send him a personal message, just saying "Hi". My boyfriend claims that he is totally devoted to me, is extremely happy and loves me. That he would never stray because he loves me so deeply.
Guess what, he replied, "Hi" back. I'm not assuming anything at this point. He could just be being nice. Although, the pictures I posted about this new fictitious woman were of a Russian model. I suppose it would be hard for any man not to at least be friendly to her.
Just to make things interesting, I navigated over to my boyfriends Facebook page and liked a few of his posts too. Just to make it fair. I wonder what is going to happen now.
April 26th, 2019
I check my fake profile today. I found that my boyfriend has started a conversation with this fake lady that I created. Playing along. I got a few more friend requests and accepted them. Added myself to a few more groups and liked more posts. This is crazy to me how fast a fake profile had attracted so much attention.
April 30th, 2019
My boyfriend asked to see some personal photos of this non-existent person a few days ago, so I looked up a black & white photo of the curves of a body. He went for it immediately, said that he loves the photo and asked for more. He then downloaded the photo, adjusted it and added his own personal poem to it and signed it. Then he sent it back to her and sent her some photos of himself. I'm in shock, he claimed total devotion to me and yet he just proved, without knowing, that he lied to me. I supposed I deserve this, but I certainly didn't set out to prove him a cheater, but this seems to be going that way. I'm trying to decide if I should tell him now or play his game a little longer and see how far he is willing to take this. I certainly don't trust him, actually I never really have as he has cheated on me several times in the past. I went ahead and sent him what he asked for, another photo of this black and white profile I found on Google. I'm so disappointed in his actions.
No surprise, my boyfriend replied back immediately and again asking to see more personal photos of this non existent fake person. I'm sitting right across from him, I can tell when he's replying because he suddenly sits up straight and smiles in a child like wonderment. I'm breaking my own heart here, but I wonder ... if he is reacting this way to my fake profile, how many other real profiles is he reacting to?
May 26th, 2019
My boyfriend responded several more times, asking for photos, but I decided to not play the game any longer. I figured that he was doing this with several other women as well. If my fake profile somehow showed up in his view, I'm sure many other profiles show up daily. I do see a lot of women that he is talking to online. He always has a good excuse why he's talking to them. I would rather not know what untrustworthy things he is doing behind my back. Less stressful. I know he is lying to me, I've caught him red handed over and over. I never called him out on it, because I don't like conflict. I think it gives him a feeling of triumph to know that he is still talking to many women, that he still feels desired by many women, that he has a back up plan for when we break up.
My fake profile is still getting many friend requests and has been invited to several discussion groups now. There are tons of men trying to get into conversations with her, most are from dating sites, I believe some are also fake profiles trying to catfish others. I'm trying to weed out the fakes, starting a few conversations with those I feel are real, but not giving it as much effort as I did before my boyfriend chatted with this fake lady behind my back.
June 27th, 2019
Been accepting friend requests, comments have been made on my fake multiple posts and have been invited to groups. It seems like my fake profile has been accepted as a real person. My boyfriend went to Vegas, said he didn't want me to go, because he didn't want to feel uncomfortable with me. That seems weird. I know he does illegal drugs, likes group sex, so I wonder if he is planning on doing some activities that he knows I would be offended by. I also wonder if he's going to try to contact my fake profile lady, to try and hook up with her. They had talked about meeting in Vegas when he was asking for naked photos.
June 29th, 2019
I had my fake profile lady ask my boyfriend if he was in a serious relationship. He actually said yes, but was inviting her to be in a open relationship with him. Wow. I have never cheated on him and always stayed faithful. Time to let this big fish off the hook and kick him out of my house.
July 30th, 2019
I finally got the nerve up to kick out my boyfriend. I confronted him on what he did, but of course he manipulated the situation to seem innocent and if I wasn't the other woman that he had been flirting with, I would have believed him! Women beware. Men can convince you of anything. Since I knew better, I got him out of my house. He broke in last night, so I replaced all of the locks. Good riddance you cheating manipulative less-than-a-human.
